WHAT IT TAKES TO BE HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP?

THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP,GOOD OR BAD AND FOR ALL SITUATIONS AND CONDITIONS THERE ARE ALWAYS CHALLENGES, EITHER BEFORE  OR IN MARRIAGE,BUT ITS GOOD TO HAVE  CHALLENGES  SOMETIMES ,BECAUSE IT WILL HELP TO MODIFY THE RELATIONSHIP IN TIMES TO COME

ITS ALWAYS A GOOD THING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU CARE FOR AND LOVE AND WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE HAPPINESS IT BRINGS TO YOU AND THE JOY YOU FEEL EVERY TIME YOU SEE AND  THINK OF THAT PERSON INVOLVED ,THINKING OF THE TIMES YOU HAVE SHARED TOGETHER AND WHEN YOU HAVE GONE OUT TO RESTAURANTS TO EAT,TIMES WHEN YOU GO OUT TO WATCH MOVIES AND TIMES WHEN YOU SHARE THINGS IN COMMON AND TIMES WHEN YOU WATCH MOVIES OR PROGRAMS TOGETHER DEPENDING ON INDIVIDUAL INTERESTS.

WE HAVE SEEN SITUATIONS WHERE  BOTH PARTIES ARE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR EACH OTHER OUT OF LOVE , ESPECIALLY WHEN THE OTHER DOES NOT COME AT THE APPOINTED TIME, OR WHEN THE OTHER DOES NOT COME BACK FROM WORK ON TIME OR WHEN THE MAN IS ON THE LOOK OUT FOR HIS WOMAN WHEN SHE TAKES SO LONG TO COME BACK. THE EAGERNESS,THE EXCITEMENT FOR THE PARTNER TO COME HOME ,ITS ALWAYS EXCITING WHEN YOU REALISE THE HAPPINESS AND JOY YOU FEEL WHEN THINGS GO SMOOTHLY.

THE GOOD THING THAT NEEDS  CONSIDERATION IS:

•  SETTLING DISPUTES BETWEEN THE MAN AND THE WOMAN, BOTH OF THEM SHOULD TRY TO AVOID QUARREL ,  NO MATTER HOW ANGRY THEY ARE WITH EACH OTHER,
•  TRY TO TALK OVER THE CRISIS WHEN THE TEMPER IS DOWN ,AND TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY
• TRY TO AVOID MORE CRISIS  AND BOTH PARTIES WILL BE HAPPY EVER AFTER.

DESPITE ALL CRISIS AND BENEFITS IN A RELATIONSHIP,ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO AVOID QUARREL,NAGGING,COMPLAINS AT ALL TIMES, AND ITS GOOD TO TRY TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS, NO MATTER WHAT, IT IS ALWAYS GOOD TO SETTLE WHATEVER DIFFERENCES AT ALL TIME.