What is your hobby

What is the value of a hobby

the value of your hobby

Hobby is the passion you have for doing something that makes you happy depending on your passion. Talking about hobbies, there are all kinds of hobbies depending on your area of interest , designation or what you are passionate about. It ‘s like the parents who make it a hobby to take care of their kids on daily basis, If we need to check our Interests and hobbies, some people like going for a bike ride every morning while some like road walking, exercising at the gym, swimming and a lot more.

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Other people like doing what they have the zeal or passion for, which is always the source of inspiration for them. If we look at it critically, having a hobby or passion in doing something is a very good exercise or measure because it helps you in maintaining and exercising your duties which in some cases are mandatory especially parenting , but generally it is always a good thing to develop a hobby in doing something, let’s look at our kids who always like playing with their toys at all times, playing video games on the internet and watching TV at all times, these are all part of a hobby.

bicycle riders

some people like reading, blogging, going on Facebook on regular basis to chat and talk with friends and some people take to Instagram,twitter,linked in and other social media. All this process have become a hobby for each person thereby helping in our efforts. some people cannot do without going to the theater to watch movies and with the holiday around the corner, is more motive for them to run along to watch more movies and this has become a passion or hobby for them.

dance

Sometimes having a hobby or doing something we like helps in killing stress and sadness for instance when you are sad or unhappy,  you can develop the habit or passion for reading especially good and interesting books and novels which will take you to a different world and thereby helping  you in taking away your sadness. There are other kind of hobbies and they include:

photographer

  1. Cooking, baking , sewing, washing, fishing,  drawing, makeup, sewing and a lot more and theses are part of the areas where people develop passion. Some college students like taking part in plays and drama organized by a literary society in their school.
    2. Photography is another passion which some people like with all their heart, especially in summer and as we all know taking beautiful pictures in different locations could be very exciting
    3. Music and dance is another hobby that gives you joy, solace and happiness. It will always be a great thing if you can take the pleasure of taking classes and it could be a great fun too.
    4. Stamp collecting is a passive hobby which is passion for some other people.
    5. Going  for a walk and spending sometime alone in contemplation and peace could be a great passion  and hobby for others

          6. Playing guitar and composing songs could be a great hobby which is always appreciated.

7. volleyball , baseball, basketball, soccer, knitting, camping are also hobbies for some people.

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Creating a hobby is always very helpful especially in distress, it helps you to focus your mind on something else and it also helps in making you appreciate what you have passion for , especially what gives you solace and peace of mind. As we all know doing what makes us happy most, always helps motivate and elevate us in our job’s and businesses and whatever we intend doing.  What is most important about having a hobby is that it makes us happy and we should always go for happiness.

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Season of peace and happiness

Happy Holidays To You

A happy  time is when people get together to celebrate a most important and peaceful time that matters to all.  Christmas is a time when all friends and families leave there jobs and what ever they have to do to celebrate, it is also a time that people get together in harmony to appreciate life,time and unity with happiness that really counts in the life of man and this is a time when families go out to eat and have fun that really counts with friends and relations .

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happy holidays

Christmas at Downton Abbey (2CD)

Christmas is a special time where kids are happy and want to show it by going to Christmas parties and singing carols and Christmas sing and there are lots of important and necessary things happening for everybody. It is really a time that everybody is looking forward to.  i remember as a little kid, this is a time that we are always looking forward to, because we always have fireworks and a lot of fun including going to parties and a lot of eating and drinking, it’s all fun time for all.

holiday

holiday

 

Christmas is a peaceful and mood changing period when everybody forgets about their life challenges, sorrows pains and whatever they are going through. It is a season of great impression on all grounds and it is a wonderful time that needs consideration by both kids and adults, so it’s a season of happiness, song, celebration and joy.  Christmas has always been a holiday celebrated carelessly, both pagans, Christians, millennia and Jews alike have become part of the season’s festivities, and it is only few people who consider the celebration’s intrinsic meaning, history, or origins. The joy of it is what really matters and not its origin.

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Most of the most popular Christmas customs which  includes the Christmas trees, Christmas presents and Santa Claus.  Most people who are happily preparing for the Xmas celebrations would rather not know about the holidays real origin or significance. even if they know the history or origin of Christmas, they do not care because of the fun and happiness that it brings and that is what really counts or matters.

xmas

I remember the Christmas song:” Happy Holiday Happy holiday, happy holiday While the merry bells keep ringing May your every wish come true.  Happy holiday, happy holiday May the calendar keep bringing Happy holidays to you.  Come To Holiday Inn If you’re burdened down with trouble, If your nerves are wearing thin Park your load down the road And come to Holiday Inn.  If the traffic noise affects you Like a squeaky violin Kick your cares down the stairs And come to Holiday Inn.  If you can’t find someone who Would set your heart a-whirl Take your car and motor to The home of boy meets girl.  If you’re laid-up with a breakdown, Throw away your vitamin Don’t get worse, grab your nurse and come to holiday inn?” It would be a good thing to bring your family and friends together at this time of the year.  “Happy Holidays”.
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THE BENEFITS OF LAUGHTER

LAUGHTER  BENEFITS

LAUGHING AWAY YOUR DISTRESS, STRESS, PAIN, SORROWS AND THOUGHTS IS A NATURAL PROCESS WHICH CHANGES THE MOOD OF A MAN AND BRINGS ABOUT PIECE OF MIND AND RELAXATION.  STUDIES SO FAR HAVE SHOWN THAT LAUGHTER CAN RELIEVE PAIN, BRING GREATER HAPPINESS AND EVEN INCREASE IMMUNITY AND PROTECT YOUR HEART FROM HARM.  HAVE YOU EVER FELT LIKE YOU HAVE TO LAUGH OR CRY? HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED THAT GOOD FEELING AFTER A GOOD LAUGH?.   LAUGHTER PROVIDES A PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL HAPPINESS OR RELEASE AND A GOOD BELLY LAUGH EXERCISES THE DIAPHRAGM, CONTRACTS THE ABS AND EVEN WORKS OUT THE SHOULDERS, LEAVING THE MUSCLES MORE RELAXED.

cat laughing

laughing cat

LAUGHTER TAKES THE MIND AWAY FROM ANGER, GUILT, STRESS AND NEGATIVE EMOTIONS IN A MORE BENEFICIAL WAY THAN OTHER MERE DISTRACTIONS. IT DISSOLVES DISTRESSING EMOTIONS, YOU CANT FEEL ANXIOUS, ANGRY, OR SAD WHEN YOU ARE LAUGHING.  LAUGHTER HELPS YOU RELAX AND RECHARGES, IT REDUCES STRESS AND INCREASES ENERGY, ENABLING YOU TO STAY FOCUSED AND ACCOMPLISH MORE.  LAUGHING WITH OTHERS IS MORE POWERFUL THAN LAUGHING ALONE. SHARED LAUGHTER IS ONE OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE TOOLS FOR KEEPING RELATIONSHIP FRESH AND EXCITING AND IT BINDS AND IT IS ALWAYS A SOURCE OF HAPPINESS AND CLOSENESS FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE AND MOST TIMES IT MAKES STRESS GO AWAY AND THE FUN OF IT ALL IS THAT AT THAT MOMENT OF LAUGHTER YOU HAVE NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT BUT LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

LAUGHTER AND BENEFITS

LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

WHAT DOES LAUGHTER REALLY DO TO A MAN? :

  • BOOSTS IMMUNITY
  • LOWERS STRESS
  • DECREASES PAINS
  • RELAXES YOUR MUSCLES
  • PREVENTS HEART DISEASE
  • ADDS JOY AND ZEST TO LIFE
  • RELIEVES STRESS
  • IMPROVES MOOD
  • ENHANCES RESILIENCE
  •  ENHANCES A RELATIONSHIP
  • ATTRACTS OTHERS TO US
  • ENHANCES TEAM WORK
  • HELPS REDUCE CONFLICT
  • PROMOTES GROUP BONDING
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happy baby

LAUGHTER AND HUMOR HELPS YOU STAY EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY, IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD AND THE GOOD FEELING THAT YOU GET WHEN YOU LAUGH REMAINS WITH YOU AFTER THE LAUGHTER SUBSIDES, SO I BELIEVE IT’S A VERY RELIABLE MEDICINE FOR THE MIND AND MAKES LIFE PLEASANT AND COULD BE VERY USEFUL FOR THE DEPRESSED MIND.  IT HAS BEEN DISCOVERED THAT LAUGHTER AND JOY BOOSTS IMMUNE FUNCTIONS AND WITHOUT A DOUBT, JOYFUL PEOPLE LIVE LONGER AND HAVE HEALTHIER LIVES. SO READ YOUR FAVORITE BOOKS WATCH YOUR FAVORITE COMEDY SHOWS AND LAUGH IT UP!  THE GOOD THING ABOUT LAUGH IS THAT IT RELAXES YOU EVEN IF YOU WERE ANGRY OR ARE ANXIOUS ABOUT SOMETHING, BUT WHEN YOU START LAUGHING YOUR MIND RELAXES AND YOU ARE HAPPY.

DO YOU THINK PEOPLE CAN CHANGE?

HOW OFTEN CAN PEOPLE CHANGE?

Human nature is both flexible and rigid depending on how you want to apply it to change, it’s not always easy for someone to want to change from good to bad or from bad to good as the case may be ,but change to good and better life is a possibility, before we talk more lets ask ourselves what change really means, from my layman point of view change could be a situation where you are used to doing something which has become a habit or part of you and you are now planning on throwing that habit away because it affects you and you want the people arround you to see that you are a better person. It’s not always easy to bend a dry stick or else it will break but its easy to bend it a little. To make life different and to bring happiness upon yourself, you can bring change upon yourself.

wind of change
change

I have seen many cases of people with different habits, change to good, but initially they will say i cant change this is the way i am, some have been into drugs, womanizing, smoking and other habits but out of determination they finally change for the best, which tells me that we are really flexible or rigid which ever way we want to apply it. however if we want to improve ourselves we can,it only takes determination, resolve and some effort’s, but we can all change our lives for the better if we want to, it is not always easy, it has to come from our heart to want to change for the better and changing has to be something that matters to us deeply. when the pain of changing is more than the pain of wanting to stay the same! , we will change.

there are so  many measure that is taken for change to happen:

  • The zeal and will to change

  • Determination to change for the better

  • The thought of realising,  that what we are doing is not the best for us

  • religion as a motivation for change

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DO YOU THINK MONEY CAN BUY HAPPINESS?

VALUE OF MONEY AND HAPPINESS

MONEY AND WHERE TO SHOP

WHERE TO SHOP

MONEY IS A NECESSITY WHICH CAN NOT BE AVOIDED, FOR WITHOUT MONEY SURVIVAL OF MAN IS TERRIBLE BUT MEASURING MONEY WITH HAPPINESS IS LIKE HAVING A TWO FACE COIN ON A SCALE AND TRYING TO COMPARE WHICH IS THE BEST.FROM EVERY POINT OF VIEW MONEY IS IMPORTANT IN A MANS LIFE AND SO ALSO IS HAPPINESS, FOR LIFE WITHOUT HAPPINESS IS NOT COMPLETE.

WHAT MONEY DOES TO MAN

MONEY AND HAPPINESS

MONEY AND HAPPINESS GOES TOGETHER BUT CAN MONEY REALLY BUY HAPPINESS, I REMEMBER A SCENARIO I USED TO REMEMBER A LONG TIME AGO, THIS GIRL FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN FOR HIS MONEY AND NOT FOR HIM AND AGREED TO MARRY HIM ON GROUNDS THAT SHE WILL BE HAPPY FOR THE SAKE OF THE MONEY, BUT THE REVERSE WAS THE CASE WHEN THIS MAN HAD NO TIME FOR HER BECAUSE HE CONCENTRATED MORE ON MAKING MONEY AND HIS BUSINESS THAN MAKING HER HAPPY AND SHE ENDED UP BEING FRUSTRATED BECAUSE THE LOVE SHE EXPECTED TO COME WITH THE MONEY NEVER CAME AND SHE REALIZED THAT MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING EVEN THOUGH ITS AN IMPORTANT ELEMENT IN HER LIFE ,SO SHE MADE A CHOICE TO QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP AND GOT SOMEBODY ELSE THAT MADE HER HAPPY EVEN THOUGH THERE WAS NOT ENOUGH MONEY BUT SHE WAS HAPPY AND THEY MANAGE THE LITTLE THEY HAD AND WERE HAPPY.

MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING

HAPPINESS COMES FROM WITHIN

THE ATTENTION MONEY GIVES IS ALWAYS VERY EXCITING,BUT FOR ME I WILL PREFER HAVING THE MONEY THAN NOT TO HAVE AT ALL, BUT AT THE SAME TIME  HAPPINESS CAN NOT BE OBTAINED BY TAKING POSSESSION OF A MATERIAL OBJECT.MONEY CANT GIVE YOU YOUR HEALTH BACK IF YOU ARE SICK  NOT AT ALL, ALTHOUGH IT CAN GIVE YOU A SENSE OF SECURITY AND FROM OBSERVATION I REALISED THAT MY POOR FRIENDS ARE MORE HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE THAN MY RICH FRIENDS.

Happiness

Happiness (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

HAPPINESS IS A THING THAT IS ALWAYS  FROM WITHIN THE HEART AND ITS NOT A THING THAT CAN BE SOLD OR BOUGHT, BUT MORE OF A STATE OF MIND. SOMETIMES WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY MIGHT BE BOUGHT. MONEY SURELY CAN REDUCE STRESS IN A MANS LIFE BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT UNLIMITED MONEY SOMETIMES MAKES IT DIFFICULT FOR SOME PEOPLE TO BE HUMBLE. SOMETIMES MONEY CAN BUY YOU LOVE, FREEDOM FROM CONTINOUS GRINDING AND WORRY , ALL OF WHICH CONTRIBUTE TO POTENTIAL HAPPINESS IN  A BIG WAY. FROM YOUR OWN POINT OF VIEW DO YOU THINK MONEY CAN BUY HAPPINESS?
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RELATIONSHIPS AND HAPPINESS

WHAT IT TAKES TO BE HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP?

THERE ARE UPS AND DOWNS IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP,GOOD OR BAD AND FOR ALL SITUATIONS AND CONDITIONS THERE ARE ALWAYS CHALLENGES, EITHER BEFORE  OR IN MARRIAGE,BUT ITS GOOD TO HAVE  CHALLENGES  SOMETIMES ,BECAUSE IT WILL HELP TO MODIFY THE RELATIONSHIP IN TIMES TO COME

ITS ALWAYS A GOOD THING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE YOU CARE FOR AND LOVE AND WHEN YOU LOOK AT THE HAPPINESS IT BRINGS TO YOU AND THE JOY YOU FEEL EVERY TIME YOU SEE AND  THINK OF THAT PERSON INVOLVED ,THINKING OF THE TIMES YOU HAVE SHARED TOGETHER AND WHEN YOU HAVE GONE OUT TO RESTAURANTS TO EAT,TIMES WHEN YOU GO OUT TO WATCH MOVIES AND TIMES WHEN YOU SHARE THINGS IN COMMON AND TIMES WHEN YOU WATCH MOVIES OR PROGRAMS TOGETHER DEPENDING ON INDIVIDUAL INTERESTS.

WE HAVE SEEN SITUATIONS WHERE  BOTH PARTIES ARE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR EACH OTHER OUT OF LOVE , ESPECIALLY WHEN THE OTHER DOES NOT COME AT THE APPOINTED TIME, OR WHEN THE OTHER DOES NOT COME BACK FROM WORK ON TIME OR WHEN THE MAN IS ON THE LOOK OUT FOR HIS WOMAN WHEN SHE TAKES SO LONG TO COME BACK. THE EAGERNESS,THE EXCITEMENT FOR THE PARTNER TO COME HOME ,ITS ALWAYS EXCITING WHEN YOU REALISE THE HAPPINESS AND JOY YOU FEEL WHEN THINGS GO SMOOTHLY.

THE GOOD THING THAT NEEDS  CONSIDERATION IS:

  •  SETTLING DISPUTES BETWEEN THE MAN AND THE WOMAN, BOTH OF THEM SHOULD TRY TO AVOID QUARREL ,  NO MATTER HOW ANGRY THEY ARE WITH EACH OTHER,
  •  TRY TO TALK OVER THE CRISIS WHEN THE TEMPER IS DOWN ,AND TRY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE TO MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY
  • TRY TO AVOID MORE CRISIS  AND BOTH PARTIES WILL BE HAPPY EVER AFTER.

DESPITE ALL CRISIS AND BENEFITS IN A RELATIONSHIP,ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO AVOID QUARREL,NAGGING,COMPLAINS AT ALL TIMES, AND ITS GOOD TO TRY TO BE HAPPY ALWAYS, NO MATTER WHAT, IT IS ALWAYS GOOD TO SETTLE WHATEVER DIFFERENCES AT ALL TIME.