how to make relationships work

Making relationships work

How do we make relationships work?, hmmm! it takes the grace of God and a lot of good notion including patience understand and perseverance and most relationship have stress and crisis, so making sacrifice for that relationship will go a along way, but it is always worth the while if properly applied, there are so many information, prompts and advice out there and sometimes they could be reliable and sometimes it is not worth accepting because they look like junk automatically means it is not a good advice and it is not worth reading because they are most times contradicting and confusing. The unfortunate thing is that most information given is one-sided and   does not apply to everybody because of the fact that different problems needs different solutions and i am being brief about what advice I can give about making a relationship work. There are some elements of truth about stability in a good relationship.  Some factors that make relationships work are:
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relationship built on trust

built on trust

  • Trust: A good, healthy and loving relationship relies on trust and faith in whomever you are dealing with which includes marriages and others, for without trust, chaos, confusion and pestilence will arise in that relationship and from a layman’s point of view, a relationship without trust is like telephone without service, which is almost like a relationship without a good foundation.  lack of trust can lead to you checking on him all the time believing in what you imagine which could be baseless. lets say he is away on a conference, you are there worried about what he or she is doing and who they are with and all kinds of thought will be flowing through your mind.  Unnecessary insecurities due to lack of trust will lead to constant quarrel and commotions at home which if looked critically could end up driving both of you apart instead of getting close. I get it, there has been a bad experience about a past relationship. but we need to forget about our past and move on or else you will have trust issue in your relationship which you need to avoid.
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relationship

relationship

  • communication : Do you communicate with your partner at all? some people have problem expressing their feelings and what they think with their friend and partner, but why? of what value is that relationship when there is no room for proper communication. Lack of communication with your partner is a big problem. It is in your best interest to tell him your opinion, then you can both solve whatever problem you may have and it will create room for understanding which is always the case with communicating to each other and not keeping quiet. improper communication might lead to survival problems in that relationship. There are some factors that needs consideration when communicating and these includes respect and talking calmly and reasonably to each other and this could be a better solution to all problems which will call for understand and therefore solution.
love

love

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  • Love: There is that saying which says “love conquers them all”.  It is the major reason which brings two people together anyways and sometimes some people decide to get together and live together even if they don’t love each other and its an incredible situation and with time they may fall in love with each other and this love situation will help in solving most problems, no matter how tough and if both parties fall apart that same love that brought them together the first time will always bring them back.  For peace, understanding and love to reign in any relationship you must learn to:
  1. Understand your partner at all cost
  2. Give love honor and respect to each other
  3. Try creating moment for connection and communication
  4. Learn to share things in common
  5. Cope with situations and problems wisely and strategically no matter how tough
  6. Learn to dialogue as much as you can

 

 

 

 

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How To Boost Self Esteem At Workplace

How To Improve Confidence At The Workplace

Self esteem is a process of building confidence in whatever you are doing and there are many people in the world of today who really feel very confident in their regular life, but for some unknown reason they find it difficult applying the same self-confidence at their place of work or any other important place.  If you are in the class of people without self-confidence at work then you have to learn how to improve confidence at your workplace or any other place of importance.  I believe I have some good suggestions that might be of great value to you and will help you improve if you decide to put it into practice and make them a routine on daily basis.

low self esteem

Tips for enhancing your self-esteem at work are:

  • Start taking tasks that you will normally turn down because of fear: The primary way that you can improve your self-confidence at work is by tackling your fears by assuming jobs that you wouldn’t want to do on normal bases due to fear and lack of confidence in yourself and another way of overcoming lack of confidence is by working on things that keep you scared.
  • Try the best you can to improve on your job skill and be of great value to your company or business.  Every company want good and reliable workers especially the ones that are true and honest to their job and go extra mile to enhance their place which is always the best for the company or business. This kind of situation normally boosts your confidence automatically and it will help you in making a lot of money eventually.
  • There are always conflict at work one way or the other and if you make  it a point of duty to help in solving conflict at work and this way your self-esteem will improve and your confidence in yourself  will increase your value by others and this will boost your self-esteem.  If you have this logo at workplace then you will end up being the man in your workplace and this is very good for any business or work environment.

self esteem

  • Contributing to general office discussions will help in many ways to boost your self-confidence and holding back on general conversation because of lack of confidence  will hinder you in many ways.  If you think that discussions made by others has more value than yours then you have to think again.
  • Another way to improve is to stop comparing yourself with others because everybody has a unique offer to give no matter what, because our ideas and thought level are not the same and our ideas coupled with life experience  are of great value to all one way or the other.
self confidence

confidence

Low self-esteem can affect every aspect of your life negatively including your relationships, your job and your health, so boosting your self-esteem will be of great value, so try the best you can to follow these tips and  you’ll have no choice but to boost your confidence  at work no matter what!

What It Takes To Be More Focused And Productive

Becoming More Focused, Productive And How To Go About It

productive

productivity

Being focused in whatever we do is the key to success in all our endeavors and additionally being focused goes a long way.  Believe me my friend if you put in all the work and work really hard, then you will get a lot of work done in a really short period. Trust me all you need to do is develop your sense of self-discipline, concentration, dedication and you will get an amazing amount of work done with great result.  The first thing you need to keep in mind is that there are no shortcuts but only the right steps to getting long-term results. being a jack of all trade or having too much going on in your life is the number one cause and reason why people are not productive so you must really work hard towards getting rid of any kind of  distractions.

focus

focus

You will really and truly start to enjoy your life more if you actually get rid of the things that give no real value to your life and are time-consuming. You are also never going to get the work that you want to get done, quickly completed if you don’t get rid of any kind of distraction. The next thing you need to pay attention to is actually setting aside several hours a day to doing the work that you love to do. You need to really make sure that you have a fixed schedule. So regardless of how busy your life gets or how tight your schedule is, you will always be there to make sure that you are getting things done.  You need to make sure that you concentrate on the task at hand.

focus

focus

There is nothing more critical than not focusing on what you are doing at a particular time. Not focusing properly will ultimately mean that you will jeopardize your level of success in being a more productive person. The reality is extremely simple and that means being productive is really easy when you just focus on doing the right thing and working hard on it. So do not waste a further moment of your time and just get down to doing the work that you need to get done.  It is very crucial in a man’s life to have a goal, get focused and be determined to get result for whatever you want to do and make sure you do away with any kind of distraction, that way we will get good and reliable result for whatever we do.

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