Dating Suggestions For Females

Suggestions On Dating For Females

Do you want to discover how to get him to show his emotions with you? Are you tired of sensing like you don’t know what is going on in his mind? Are you unhappy because you aren’t even certain how he feels about you? It may not help to listen to your thoughts, but you are not alone. In fact, the primary issue most women have about the men they are with is that he doesn’t show his feelings with them.  There are some reasons why this occurs, none of which are really too reassuring, but at least if you know why they do it, it may make you feel better about it  And if you play your cards properly, you may even be able to have him to share his emotions with you, at least a bit.  Maybe He is Just Being Himself,  Typically men don’t talk about feelings or emotions. If you listen to men talk you’ll notice that they even use terms in a different way than women. Girls would question each other about  how they feel about something; men, on the flip side, try to ask other guys if they ponder about something.  Ladies are all about sensations and emotions.

dating suggestions

dating suggestions

Men are all about facts and sensible thinking. They can speak to other guys about their favorite team and draw statistics out of the air. They’ll get associated with animated chats about different governmental concerns. But if you ask them to speak about their emotions, they clam up. So certainly, the primary approach is not going to succeed because to guys, it’s much like finding out a foreign dialect Instead, take the pressure off and stop inquiring in so many terms. The “how do you feel” question is among the most dreaded queries that a man want’s. It does more to make him clam up than practically anything else  We Must Have A Different approach or Tactics

suggestions on dating

tips on dating

You are better off to go ahead and take the indirect approach, where you talk to him on the logical level of the relationship. Then every once in a while you might let him know  how certain thing makes you feel. If you have captured him off guard, he may even tell you how it makes him feel too. These are only little steps in the big picture of having him to share his emotions, but at least it’s a start  When you tell him your feelings about him, do not necessarily expect him to do exactly the same. Say it promptly, smile and move on to something else. If you can keep up things with ease and avoid the too serious conversations, he may slowly come around soon enough and actually begin to share his feelings and probably emotions.

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The Best Advice You Can Get For Breakup

Breakup – Best Advice You Can Get

There are so many breakup advice out there and sometimes you get confused and you don’t even know what to do or what not to do. I am sure you still feel for your ex and your heart is still attached to your ex.  No matter what you do or what the situation is, what you want is getting your ex back because you are still in love.. I have been where you are now and I know what it feels like to go without sleep, to lose your appetite and be lonely and sometimes you cannot stand your feelings. It is good sometimes to have an experienced friend to point you in the right direction and not a friend that will urge you to move on and feed you with lies instead of advising you to get your ex back. I want your happiness and getting your ex back is the best thing to do in the present situation and that is the only way happiness can come your way and that is the fact.

breakup

breakup

The best recommendation i can give to a friend is for you to hold on to your love and if you still love your ex try to settle your differences. Don’t be discouraged  about your situation but know that the love that you once shared is still there and will not go away and for sure the love will come back as long as your ex still loves you as you do. From my point of view, if your ex ever told you how much they love you before, then you are just experiencing an issue where things are out of balance. Probably grossly out of balance, preferably, i will suggest you wait for some times till you both settle and get things in place and with time that love will surely come back to you. It is not advisable to Move on to another relationship at this point, doing so may jeopardize the reconciliation process and this might be a huge mistake for both of you if caution is not taken.

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There will always be advice about moving on and forgetting about getting your ex  back and can make life even more complicating and this could be painful if care is not taken. Surely, having someone pay attention to you can boost your ego and that’s fine but trying to get into a relationship at this point could be very disastrous. How would you feel breaking up a relationship when you find out that you can’t stop loving your ex and you want your ex back, so the best key to your problem is patience. Breaking the heart of an innocent person is definitely not what you want..

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Get Ready To Meet That Special person

Meeting The Special person in your life

It is quite possible that you have spent all your fruitful years chasing the professional goals and climbing the corporate ladder. You have never had time for yourself or entertained any thought of pursuing your love life. Do you realize that time is running out and you might end up missing the bus?, If you fit the description above and feel that you need to find love now, good for you. The fact is that it is still not late. You first need to get yourself back into shape and feel good.

meet that special person

special person

Once you have accepted the fact that you want in a relationship, you will automatically grow sensitive and start noticing the girls around you. Who knows it might be someone special in your office or down at the restaurant. Some friend might introduce you to his friend who might get interested in you. If not you can always join social media networking sites and  get to chat with so many interesting persons and that special someone will definitely come along to chat with you.

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special person

If you are still busy from work and are not able to take time off to make friends  fair enough. What you could do is to check out and register with some of the best online dating services without having to spend too much of your time.  Online dating services are ideal platforms which give you the opportunity not only to write about yourself but also to put up the details of the kind of person that you would wish to meet. It would be a good idea to include a small color photo of yours, for this will surely attract women. Your photo can speak a lot about your personality in ways you cannot just put into words.  To make life easy, you can go to the gym get yourself in shape and look your best, then take some pictures for your audience to see.  All done, relax and get ready to enjoy

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love for life

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HOW TO KEEP YOUR RELATIONSHIP

What It Takes To Keep Your Relationship

It takes two to set up a relationship and it takes two to build it and it takes two to keep up and make that relationship work.  When a ship is one-sided it might sink, for a relationship to balance up it needs harmony and a good, loving and long relationship needs love, understanding, perseverance and patience.  Sometimes there maybe crisis like quarrel, but who is right or wrong does not really matter, but what matters is how both parties handle whatever the situation is maturely and how you share your views, ideas and settle your grievances. Nobody ever expect or plan a fight with our partners and loved ones  in a relationship, in most cases it just shows its ugly head and its very painful especially if it was a serious argument or fight.

Love ? I love love love you.

Love ? I love love love you. (Photo credit:

We must learn to understand the gravity on which a relationship stands or established, for every good and loving relationship needs love, understanding, trust, perseverance, endurance and patience, the reason being that two unknown people from different background and different orientation and training decide to come together as one really indicates that there could be conflict because sometimes our opinions may not tally which might lead to little quarrel here and there.  The greatest thing we could do as friends and couples in a relationship are to create room for understanding, endurance and patience especially in times of crisis which I believe is the key to a successful relationship.

what it tkaes to keep a relationship

love and understanding

There are so many factors that need’s consideration when it comes to how to keep your relationship. The major factors that need consideration are:

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love and patience
  1. Making sure we have a healthy and loving relationship

  2. Maintain the relationship and make it work

  3. Learn to listen when the other partner expresses their feelings and Try not to hide your feelings from each other

  4. Create an avenue for good conversation especially in times of crisis for every relationship craves for a healthy conversation

  5. Try  enduring and persevere

  6. Try to avoid grudges for more than few hours

  7. Try to work out your differences no matter what

  8. Make sure all ego and emotions  are under control

  9. Know when to say yes or no in most cases

  10. Don’t assume your partner can read your mind or know everything

  11. Avoid picking on each other

  12. Trying to know what each partner likes or does not like and  it is always very helpful and helps in building a wonderful relationship

  13. Both partners must discover the source of arguments and then create or design a way of finding solution to it and sometimes personal discovery of solution to problem could be very helpful

  14. Don’t take what you say to each other personally, especially during the heat of the moment

  15. Learn to say I am sorry when necessary.

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THE BENEFITS OF LAUGHTER

LAUGHTER  BENEFITS

LAUGHING AWAY YOUR DISTRESS, STRESS, PAIN, SORROWS AND THOUGHTS IS A NATURAL PROCESS WHICH CHANGES THE MOOD OF A MAN AND BRINGS ABOUT PIECE OF MIND AND RELAXATION.  STUDIES SO FAR HAVE SHOWN THAT LAUGHTER CAN RELIEVE PAIN, BRING GREATER HAPPINESS AND EVEN INCREASE IMMUNITY AND PROTECT YOUR HEART FROM HARM.  HAVE YOU EVER FELT LIKE YOU HAVE TO LAUGH OR CRY? HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED THAT GOOD FEELING AFTER A GOOD LAUGH?.   LAUGHTER PROVIDES A PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL HAPPINESS OR RELEASE AND A GOOD BELLY LAUGH EXERCISES THE DIAPHRAGM, CONTRACTS THE ABS AND EVEN WORKS OUT THE SHOULDERS, LEAVING THE MUSCLES MORE RELAXED.

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laughing cat

LAUGHTER TAKES THE MIND AWAY FROM ANGER, GUILT, STRESS AND NEGATIVE EMOTIONS IN A MORE BENEFICIAL WAY THAN OTHER MERE DISTRACTIONS. IT DISSOLVES DISTRESSING EMOTIONS, YOU CANT FEEL ANXIOUS, ANGRY, OR SAD WHEN YOU ARE LAUGHING.  LAUGHTER HELPS YOU RELAX AND RECHARGES, IT REDUCES STRESS AND INCREASES ENERGY, ENABLING YOU TO STAY FOCUSED AND ACCOMPLISH MORE.  LAUGHING WITH OTHERS IS MORE POWERFUL THAN LAUGHING ALONE. SHARED LAUGHTER IS ONE OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE TOOLS FOR KEEPING RELATIONSHIP FRESH AND EXCITING AND IT BINDS AND IT IS ALWAYS A SOURCE OF HAPPINESS AND CLOSENESS FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE AND MOST TIMES IT MAKES STRESS GO AWAY AND THE FUN OF IT ALL IS THAT AT THAT MOMENT OF LAUGHTER YOU HAVE NOTHING TO THINK ABOUT BUT LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

LAUGHTER AND BENEFITS

LAUGH AND BE HAPPY

WHAT DOES LAUGHTER REALLY DO TO A MAN? :

  • BOOSTS IMMUNITY
  • LOWERS STRESS
  • DECREASES PAINS
  • RELAXES YOUR MUSCLES
  • PREVENTS HEART DISEASE
  • ADDS JOY AND ZEST TO LIFE
  • RELIEVES STRESS
  • IMPROVES MOOD
  • ENHANCES RESILIENCE
  •  ENHANCES A RELATIONSHIP
  • ATTRACTS OTHERS TO US
  • ENHANCES TEAM WORK
  • HELPS REDUCE CONFLICT
  • PROMOTES GROUP BONDING
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happy baby

LAUGHTER AND HUMOR HELPS YOU STAY EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY, IT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD AND THE GOOD FEELING THAT YOU GET WHEN YOU LAUGH REMAINS WITH YOU AFTER THE LAUGHTER SUBSIDES, SO I BELIEVE IT’S A VERY RELIABLE MEDICINE FOR THE MIND AND MAKES LIFE PLEASANT AND COULD BE VERY USEFUL FOR THE DEPRESSED MIND.  IT HAS BEEN DISCOVERED THAT LAUGHTER AND JOY BOOSTS IMMUNE FUNCTIONS AND WITHOUT A DOUBT, JOYFUL PEOPLE LIVE LONGER AND HAVE HEALTHIER LIVES. SO READ YOUR FAVORITE BOOKS WATCH YOUR FAVORITE COMEDY SHOWS AND LAUGH IT UP!  THE GOOD THING ABOUT LAUGH IS THAT IT RELAXES YOU EVEN IF YOU WERE ANGRY OR ARE ANXIOUS ABOUT SOMETHING, BUT WHEN YOU START LAUGHING YOUR MIND RELAXES AND YOU ARE HAPPY.

IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, COULD IT BE TRUE LOVE?

WITH TRUE LOVE, CAN YOU EASILY BREAKUP A RELATIONSHIP?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART, MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.

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IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, WAS IT TRUE LOVE?

IF THE LOVE WAS TRUE,IS IT POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP ?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

true love is unique

TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.
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