how to make relationships work

Making relationships work

How do we make relationships work?, hmmm! it takes the grace of God and a lot of good notion including patience understand and perseverance and most relationship have stress and crisis, so making sacrifice for that relationship will go a along way, but it is always worth the while if properly applied, there are so many information, prompts and advice out there and sometimes they could be reliable and sometimes it is not worth accepting because they look like junk automatically means it is not a good advice and it is not worth reading because they are most times contradicting and confusing. The unfortunate thing is that most information given is one-sided and   does not apply to everybody because of the fact that different problems needs different solutions and i am being brief about what advice I can give about making a relationship work. There are some elements of truth about stability in a good relationship.  Some factors that make relationships work are:
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relationship built on trust

built on trust

  • Trust: A good, healthy and loving relationship relies on trust and faith in whomever you are dealing with which includes marriages and others, for without trust, chaos, confusion and pestilence will arise in that relationship and from a layman’s point of view, a relationship without trust is like telephone without service, which is almost like a relationship without a good foundation.  lack of trust can lead to you checking on him all the time believing in what you imagine which could be baseless. lets say he is away on a conference, you are there worried about what he or she is doing and who they are with and all kinds of thought will be flowing through your mind.  Unnecessary insecurities due to lack of trust will lead to constant quarrel and commotions at home which if looked critically could end up driving both of you apart instead of getting close. I get it, there has been a bad experience about a past relationship. but we need to forget about our past and move on or else you will have trust issue in your relationship which you need to avoid.
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relationship

relationship

  • communication : Do you communicate with your partner at all? some people have problem expressing their feelings and what they think with their friend and partner, but why? of what value is that relationship when there is no room for proper communication. Lack of communication with your partner is a big problem. It is in your best interest to tell him your opinion, then you can both solve whatever problem you may have and it will create room for understanding which is always the case with communicating to each other and not keeping quiet. improper communication might lead to survival problems in that relationship. There are some factors that needs consideration when communicating and these includes respect and talking calmly and reasonably to each other and this could be a better solution to all problems which will call for understand and therefore solution.
love

love

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  • Love: There is that saying which says “love conquers them all”.  It is the major reason which brings two people together anyways and sometimes some people decide to get together and live together even if they don’t love each other and its an incredible situation and with time they may fall in love with each other and this love situation will help in solving most problems, no matter how tough and if both parties fall apart that same love that brought them together the first time will always bring them back.  For peace, understanding and love to reign in any relationship you must learn to:
  1. Understand your partner at all cost
  2. Give love honor and respect to each other
  3. Try creating moment for connection and communication
  4. Learn to share things in common
  5. Cope with situations and problems wisely and strategically no matter how tough
  6. Learn to dialogue as much as you can

 

 

 

 

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Can A Person Make Too Much Money? How Much Is” Too Much”?

 What Do We Understand As too Much Money? And how Much Is “Too Much”

Everybody have different desires, as we all know human wants are insatiable, but the wish for money is what we all have. The wish for little money can still lead to wish for more and sometimes some people are always satisfied with what they got and some are not.  Too much money can have different meaning to different people, depending on our opinion about what too much money could mean. Everybody wants a good thing and money is one of them and I don’t contemplate there is anything like too much for anything good. Any money put into good use for the benefit of others and you, are never too much.  The good thing about money is that it helps in taking care of yourself and others; it is very useful for charity when you have excess of it and you can never be satisfied with what you have because our wants and needs are not stable so we will always have the wish to have more money.  When we have a lot of money we want to give to charity, want to buy assets and want to enjoy ourselves and due to this, our want in lieu of money cannot stop

Money

Money (Photo credit: 401(K) 2012)

I don’t know what your opinion is or what you think about having money or more money but for me I cannot stop having the wish for more money because of my needs at all time and I also have the wish to help others and I believe we can never stop wanting or looking for more like Oliver twist who is always looking for more. From my opinion and believe to have excess is better than struggling for money.  So I will rather say there is nothing like “too much money”.  It is difficult deciding exactly what “too much money” really is. Money is a gift to all and it visits whomever it wishes to bless in abundance, but whatever money you have you have to learn to use it well for your own benefit and to the benefit of all. The greatest and most important way of spending money is to use it to bless others who are lacking and in need.

lot of money

too much money

I don’t think anybody can make too much money for the money is not enough no matter how much you have made, for all the days of our lives we will keep having the wish for more money and we cannot really decide what too much money is because our opinion of what “Too Much money” is different from each other  and what could be enough depends on different people. The thing is if you think you have a lot of money, you will be craving to have more because you are not satisfied with what you have and feel you should work hard for more because of  our human nature and the feeling that money will solve our entire problem. What goes around comes around comes around. Sometimes I want to compare money to the food we eat because no matter how much food we have eaten, when we are hungry, we always want more.  Looking at it critically can money be too much or enough for those that do not have food to eat or shelter over there head?  When we have a lot of money, it is better to think of what we will do with it to the advantage of everybody including ourselves. There are people who have money and still make a lot of donation to charity and there are others who have money, but have given nothing in return. From my opinion when you have excess money, you need to give to the lives of others who are in need, and then all your effort would be highly appreciated.

Forex Money for International Curency

Forex Money for International Curency (Photo credit: epSos.de)

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