Season of peace and happiness

Happy Holidays To You

A happy  time is when people get together to celebrate a most important and peaceful time that matters to all.  Christmas is a time when all friends and families leave there jobs and what ever they have to do to celebrate, it is also a time that people get together in harmony to appreciate life,time and unity with happiness that really counts in the life of man and this is a time when families go out to eat and have fun that really counts with friends and relations .

xmas holiday

happy holidays

Christmas at Downton Abbey (2CD)

Christmas is a special time where kids are happy and want to show it by going to Christmas parties and singing carols and Christmas sing and there are lots of important and necessary things happening for everybody. It is really a time that everybody is looking forward to.  i remember as a little kid, this is a time that we are always looking forward to, because we always have fireworks and a lot of fun including going to parties and a lot of eating and drinking, it’s all fun time for all.

holiday

holiday

 

Christmas is a peaceful and mood changing period when everybody forgets about their life challenges, sorrows pains and whatever they are going through. It is a season of great impression on all grounds and it is a wonderful time that needs consideration by both kids and adults, so it’s a season of happiness, song, celebration and joy.  Christmas has always been a holiday celebrated carelessly, both pagans, Christians, millennia and Jews alike have become part of the season’s festivities, and it is only few people who consider the celebration’s intrinsic meaning, history, or origins. The joy of it is what really matters and not its origin.

fun and game

Most of the most popular Christmas customs which  includes the Christmas trees, Christmas presents and Santa Claus.  Most people who are happily preparing for the Xmas celebrations would rather not know about the holidays real origin or significance. even if they know the history or origin of Christmas, they do not care because of the fun and happiness that it brings and that is what really counts or matters.

xmas

I remember the Christmas song:” Happy Holiday Happy holiday, happy holiday While the merry bells keep ringing May your every wish come true.  Happy holiday, happy holiday May the calendar keep bringing Happy holidays to you.  Come To Holiday Inn If you’re burdened down with trouble, If your nerves are wearing thin Park your load down the road And come to Holiday Inn.  If the traffic noise affects you Like a squeaky violin Kick your cares down the stairs And come to Holiday Inn.  If you can’t find someone who Would set your heart a-whirl Take your car and motor to The home of boy meets girl.  If you’re laid-up with a breakdown, Throw away your vitamin Don’t get worse, grab your nurse and come to holiday inn?” It would be a good thing to bring your family and friends together at this time of the year.  “Happy Holidays”.
Santa Toilet Seat Cover and Rug Set (Red)

 

 

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Steps On How To Get Your Ex Back

What It Takes To Get Your EX Back

steps to breaking up

breakup

Sometimes we wonder why we had a breakup in our former relationship and how to get our ex back and we feel really bad especially if it was somebody we cared deeply about, this thought makes us hope that we reconcile with our ex and because of situations like this,  some people seek for Help! on how to get their ex! back and this is a problem faced by many people who had a bad or unfortunate relationship. After many years of good relationship with your partner, it could be very devastating that you broke up and this could be deteriorating and could lead to a breakdown, depression and a lot of stress and this development all of a sudden will propel  accomplice and friends to assert that there is separation

getting your ex back

getting ex back

Tips:- There are steps that need consideration when it comes to getting your ex back:

  • Make the proper move that will eventually resort to peace between both of you and not anger or resentment.
  • After break up, if your ex asks to go out with you as a company go for it.
  • Don’t hit on his best friend because it will hurt his feeling even if he is no longer with you.
  • Be honest with him and yourself.
  • Do not let him know that you miss him!
  • Don’t be too pushy about him coming back but  let him perceive that you want him back
  • If he wants you back just give him some time, but not too much!
  • Do not argue with him at all time or if possible avoid any form of argument.
  • Avoid flirting with his friends; it will get him angry even more.
  • Do not put any kind of burden on him.
  • Always be positive no matter what the situation.
  • Don’t do something that you are sure he doesn’t like just to get his attention, This might make things worse.
breaking up

getting your ex back

Warnings:-

  • Never beg over and over.
  • Don’t get your hopes up too high because there is a chance that he may not yield or respond to you as you expect .
  • Make sure nobody takes advantage of you
  • Never accept your ex back if he or she breaks up with you for another man or woman, unless you still want him or her aback and you feel he or she made a mistake.
  • Don’t go after your ex if he or she has remarried.
  • The fact that he abandoned you could cause you aching on your side, once again keep away from him because he has to move on with another person.


The world Of Loneliness

 

Loneliness and Its Effects

lonely

lonely

 Loneliness has always been a painful and disturbing situation whereby you don’t feel connected to others and you feel the important needs in your life are not being met and you feel some emptiness.  We as humans always need acquaintance and this brings about creation of relationships and friendship so, loneliness is a signal that an important basic need is not being met such as the need to develop a circle of friends or a special relationship. People need people. If you are lonely, you sometimes feel the need for warmth, understanding, and long to share your feelings and thoughts with others. Loneliness does not necessarily mean being alone. For instance, you can feel lonely when you are in a class with twenty other students, in the middle of a party, at a sports event with hundreds of screaming spectators, or surrounded by family.

loneliness

loneliness

 

Loneliness can mean:

  • Feeling that you are unacceptable, unloved by those around you, not worthwhile, even if others don’t share these perceptions; feeling alienated from your surroundings: lacking the attachments that you had in the past… feeling that there is no one with whom to share your personal concerns and experiences…
  • Feeling that you are alone and have no other choice. You may find it difficult to make friends or go beyond mere acquaintance… Loneliness to me means no real companionship
  • There is no one close enough to touch and willing to laugh when I make a stupid joke so I can think I’m funny.
  • Loneliness means eating lots of meals alone. One fork hitting one plate every night for several years is a very desolate sound, devastating and this ruins the best of culinary creations when you match it with a good long stare at the wall in front of you.
  • Feeling that you are not wanted, sometimes you want to associate with others but you have this feeling which draw you back and makes you feel unwanted by others.
  • It sometimes means being very afraid that you will never develop whatever it is that lets other people experience how you feel or share your ideas or feelings with other people, so they can gain or learn from your little experience

    alone

    alone

The best we can do when we feel lonely is to try to share our feelings and emotions with others.  Reasonable advice and good direction on the right part could be very useful because sometimes if you do not let others know your feelings or try to get at least one person you can share your mind and thoughts with, then you might get into trouble, because loneliness sometimes can lead to a lot of things like depression and uncertainty about yourself, life and the world in general, so no matter what we are going through we should avoid being lonely and civilization has made things easy now.  If you feel so lonely try joining a social media, make friends and share opinion, ideas, be active and sometimes solution to your problems could come from there and you might eventually not feel lonely again.

 

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The Best Advice You Can Get For Breakup

Breakup – Best Advice You Can Get

There are so many breakup advice out there and sometimes you get confused and you don’t even know what to do or what not to do. I am sure you still feel for your ex and your heart is still attached to your ex.  No matter what you do or what the situation is, what you want is getting your ex back because you are still in love.. I have been where you are now and I know what it feels like to go without sleep, to lose your appetite and be lonely and sometimes you cannot stand your feelings. It is good sometimes to have an experienced friend to point you in the right direction and not a friend that will urge you to move on and feed you with lies instead of advising you to get your ex back. I want your happiness and getting your ex back is the best thing to do in the present situation and that is the only way happiness can come your way and that is the fact.

breakup

breakup

The best recommendation i can give to a friend is for you to hold on to your love and if you still love your ex try to settle your differences. Don’t be discouraged  about your situation but know that the love that you once shared is still there and will not go away and for sure the love will come back as long as your ex still loves you as you do. From my point of view, if your ex ever told you how much they love you before, then you are just experiencing an issue where things are out of balance. Probably grossly out of balance, preferably, i will suggest you wait for some times till you both settle and get things in place and with time that love will surely come back to you. It is not advisable to Move on to another relationship at this point, doing so may jeopardize the reconciliation process and this might be a huge mistake for both of you if caution is not taken.

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There will always be advice about moving on and forgetting about getting your ex  back and can make life even more complicating and this could be painful if care is not taken. Surely, having someone pay attention to you can boost your ego and that’s fine but trying to get into a relationship at this point could be very disastrous. How would you feel breaking up a relationship when you find out that you can’t stop loving your ex and you want your ex back, so the best key to your problem is patience. Breaking the heart of an innocent person is definitely not what you want..

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WHATS THE BEST WAY TO SPEND A LONG WEEKEND

HOW TO SPEND A LONG WEEKEND

WEEKENDS IS ALWAYS A VERY IMPORTANT RESTING TIME THAT EVERYBODY LOOK FORWARD TO, ESPECIALLY AFTER A HARD WORKING WEEK, WE ALL HAVE OUR DIFFERENT WAYS OF HAVING A NICE TIME ON WEEKENDS. A LOT OF PEOPLE WILL WANT A PEACEFUL AND ENTERTAINING WEEKEND AND OUR OPINION OF RELAXING ARE OF VARIOUS KINDS. SOME PEOPLE WOULD WANT TO HAVE A LONG WALK WITH THEIR BEST FRIENDS,  SOME WILL LOVE TO HAVE TIME WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS, SOME PEOPLE JUST HAVE THE IDEA OF A COOK OUT OR JUST GOING SOMEWHERE THAT IS A LITTLE RELAXING LIKE THE BEACH, MOVIES, SHOWS AND OTHER PLEASANT PLACES INSTEAD OF GOING THROUGH  THE HUSTLING AND BUSTLING OF THE CITY WHICH IS SOMETIMES BORING ESPECIALLY AT WEEKENDS. TALKING ABOUT THE WEEKEND ,IT IS ALWAYS VERY EXCITING FOR A LOT OF PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY WANT TO RUN AWAY FROM A LOT OF THINGS  AND HAVE SOME PEACE OF MIND AND NOT ONE BOSS PUSHING THEM AROUND.

SPENDING THE WEEKEND BY THE BEACH

WEEKEND BY THE BEACH

I REMEMBER BEING IN THE MIDST OF SOME FRIENDS AND THIS TOPIC CAME UP AND I THEN REALIZE THAT WHAT MY IDEA OF ENJOYING MY WEEKEND OR SPENDING THE WEEKEND IS DIFFERENT FROM WHAT OTHERS  THINK. SPENDING WEEKEND BY THE SEA SIDE  OR ON THE BEACH WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS ENJOYING NATURE WITH PEACE OF MIND AND AT THE SAME TIME SUN TAN IS MY IDEA OF WHAT WE ARE TALKING ABOUT. SOMETIMES GOING TO THE FARE  OR HAVING A PICNIC  COULD GO A LONG WAY. EATING OUT AT THE BUFFET  IS ANOTHER GOOD WAY OF SPENDING A WONDERFUL WEEKEND.

FUN FISHING

FISHING AT THE WEEKEND

CONSIDERING A LOT OF WAYS TO SPEND THE WEEKEND,WATCHING MOVIES, SHOWS, ATTENDING A FILM FESTIVAL OR ANY TYPE OF FESTIVAL, HAVING A WELL COOKED HOME MADE MEAL,  SQUIRREL HUNTING AND FISHING IS ANOTHER WAY. THE HABIT OF WRITING AND DRINKING  IS AN HABIT THAT SOME DEVELOP.  SOME  CHRISTIANS GO TO CHURCH ON SUNDAY AND AFTER SERVICE THEY GO OUT TO VISIT SOME FRIENDS. GOING TO THE CINEMA IS ANOTHER WAY OF SPENDING THE WEEKEND FOR OTHERS, WHILE SOME TAKE THE HABIT OF BROWSING,  SLEEPING AND WRITING WHILE DRUNK.

WRITING WHILE DRUNK

WRITING DRUNK

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