WHAT MAKES YOU NERVOUS? AND HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT?

NERVOUSNESS ARISES AS A RESULT OF MANY THINGS,BUT IT IS SOMEHOW COMPLICATING LOOKING UP WHAT COULD BE THE CAUSE OF NERVOUSNESS,THE QUESTION IS COULD IT BE FEAR,REALITY OR UNCERTAINTY? ESPECIALLY WHAT YOU DONT KNOW MAKES YOU NERVOUS.

THE CELLS THAT MAKE UP THE NERVOUS SYSTEM ARE CALLED NEURONS(A CELL, OR NERVE CELL),LONG,STRINGY NEURONS ARE PERFECT FOR CARRYING THE ELECTRICAL MESSAGES THAT ARE THE “LANGUAGE” OF THE NERVOUS SYSTEM.

UNHAPPINESS MIGHT ARISE AS A RESULT OF  NERVOUSNESS AND “HAPPINESS LIES NOT IN THE MERE POSSESSION OF MONEY” AND TO RECOGNIZE “THE FALSITY OF MATERIAL WEALTH AS THE STANDARD OF SUCCESS”, “THE ONLY THING WE HAVE TO FEAR, IS FEAR ITSELF.”

THE VERY RICH ARE NO HAPPIER THAN THE MERELY RICH,FOR THE OTHER 99  PERCENT OF US,HAPPINESS IS GREATLY ENHANCED BY A FEW QUAINT ASSETS,LIKE SHELTER,SUSTENANCE,AND SECURITY,THOSE WHO THINK THE MATERIAL IS IMMATERIAL HAVE PROBABLY NEVER STOOD IN A BREAD-LINE.

THAT HAPPINESS IS DOWN AND SADNESS IS UP,THAT WE ARE GETTING LESS SLEEP AND SMOKING MORE CIGARETTES,THAT DEPRESSION IS ON THE RISE.

SOMETHING THAT MAKES ME NERVOUS IS MEETING A NEW GROUP THAT I HAVE TO WORK WITH,I KEEP WONDERING: AM I WELCOME HERE? WHO KNOWS?!,I OFTEN HAVE NEW CLIENTS AND THAT’S NO PROBLEM.BUT WHEN I HAVE TO GO ON SITE AND FIT IN WITH A TEAM,I GET NERVOUS.EVEN THOUGH I LOVE DOING IT.WEIRD

THERE ARE DIFFERENT WAYS TO HANDLE NERVOUSNESS:

THE WAYS I “HANDLE” IT ARE  MOSTLY TYPICAL -NAIL-BITING,THE RACING HEART, ETC. I DONT REALLY GET PAST THE NERVOUS UNTIL I FEEL LIKE I FIT IN,AND TO DO THAT,I NEED TO HAVE COLLEAGUES.

I CAN JOKE ARROUND WITH PEOPLE WHO APPRECIATE MY SENSE OF HUMOR.TO BE HONEST:THERE ARE PLACES WHERE MY SENSE OF HUMOR HAS NO EFFECT AND I’VE WORKED IN THEM.SO I SPEND MY FIRST FEW DAYS AT A NEW LOCATION TRYING MY HUMOR ON WITH PEOPLE,UNTIL I WORK OUT WHO GETS IT AND WHO DOESNT.ONCE THAT’S SETTLED,I CAN FORGET THE NERVOUSNESS BECAUSE I KNOW THAT,AT LEAST IN SOME AREAS,I BELONG.

AN UNCERTAIN FUTURE LEAVES US STRANDED IN AN UNHAPPY PRESENT WITH NOTHING TO DO BUT WAIT.IF I AM  ASKED WHAT REALLY MAKES ME NERVOUS? I THINK I WILL TELL THEM THAT  DRIVING ON THE FREEWAY DURING RUSH HOUR MAKES ME NERVOUS.ITS PRETTY MUCH TRUE AND ITS A REASONABLE ANSWER.

WHAT DO YOU THINK REALLY MAKES YOU NERVOUSNESS?