The Best Advice You Can Get For Breakup

Breakup – Best Advice You Can Get

There are so many breakup advice out there and sometimes you get confused and you don’t even know what to do or what not to do. I am sure you still feel for your ex and your heart is still attached to your ex.  No matter what you do or what the situation is, what you want is getting your ex back because you are still in love.. I have been where you are now and I know what it feels like to go without sleep, to lose your appetite and be lonely and sometimes you cannot stand your feelings. It is good sometimes to have an experienced friend to point you in the right direction and not a friend that will urge you to move on and feed you with lies instead of advising you to get your ex back. I want your happiness and getting your ex back is the best thing to do in the present situation and that is the only way happiness can come your way and that is the fact.

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The best recommendation i can give to a friend is for you to hold on to your love and if you still love your ex try to settle your differences. Don’t be discouraged  about your situation but know that the love that you once shared is still there and will not go away and for sure the love will come back as long as your ex still loves you as you do. From my point of view, if your ex ever told you how much they love you before, then you are just experiencing an issue where things are out of balance. Probably grossly out of balance, preferably, i will suggest you wait for some times till you both settle and get things in place and with time that love will surely come back to you. It is not advisable to Move on to another relationship at this point, doing so may jeopardize the reconciliation process and this might be a huge mistake for both of you if caution is not taken.

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There will always be advice about moving on and forgetting about getting your ex  back and can make life even more complicating and this could be painful if care is not taken. Surely, having someone pay attention to you can boost your ego and that’s fine but trying to get into a relationship at this point could be very disastrous. How would you feel breaking up a relationship when you find out that you can’t stop loving your ex and you want your ex back, so the best key to your problem is patience. Breaking the heart of an innocent person is definitely not what you want..

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IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, COULD IT BE TRUE LOVE?

WITH TRUE LOVE, CAN YOU EASILY BREAKUP A RELATIONSHIP?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART, MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.

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IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, WAS IT TRUE LOVE?

IF THE LOVE WAS TRUE,IS IT POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP ?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

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TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.
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THE BEST WAY TO CONTROL YOURSELF WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY?

HOW DO YOU CONTROL YOUR ANGER

THERE ARE DIFFERENT KIND OF SITUATION WHICH ARISE AND BRINGS ABOUT ANGER. SOMETIMES WE FIND IT DIFFICULT TO CONTROL OUR ANGER ESPECIALLY WHEN WE ARE EXTREMELY UPSET,UNHAPPY OR HAVE AN INTENSE FEELING OVER AN ISSUE. OUR LEVEL OF ANGER IS DIFFERENT FROM ONE INDIVIDUAL TO THE OTHER AND THE WAY WE INDIVIDUALLY REACT TO ANGER IS DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER . SOME PEOPLE GET ANGRY OVER NOTHING WHILE SOME GET ANGRY OVER A SITUATION THEY CAN CONTROL. I HAVE AN UNDERSTANDING THAT SOMETIMES ITS GOOD TO LET OUT YOUR ANGER OVER HOW YOU FEEL  AND EVENTUALLY LET IT GO. BUT THE TRUTH IS MANY PEOPLE HAVE PROBLEM MANAGING HOW THEY FEEL WHEN UPSET . MY QUESTION IS:

  • IS IT REALLY BAD TO FEEL UPSET AND  ANGRY ?
  • HOW DO I GET ANGRY WITHOUT LETTING THE OTHER PARTY FEEL BAD ?
  • HOW DO I DEAL WITH MY ANGER IN A MORE POLITE AND BETTER WAY ?
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Angry woman. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I REMEMBER A PARTICULAR INCIDENT WHEN A FRIEND CAME VISITING AND  WE WERE ALL HAVING A GOOD TIME AND CHATTING AND DURING OUR DISCUSSION WE WERE MAKING JEST OF EACH OTHER AND IT GOT TO A STAGE THAT I WAS MADE A JEST OF AND I GOT SO ANGRY THAT I FELT REALLY BAD, BUT INSTEAD OF HITTING OR FIGHTING I CONTROLLED MYSELF AND WALKED OUT OF THE HOUSE AND WENT VISITING ANOTHER FRIEND IN OTHER TO COOL OFF AND GOT MYSELF BACK IN PLACE. I DON’T CONSIDER MYSELF AN ANGRY PERSON BUT SOMETIMES I GET OUT OF CONTROL OVER A LITTLE THING AND I REACT FOOLISHLY AT THAT POINT IN TIME.  I OFTEN REGRET MY ACTIONS WHEN I BECOME CALM AFTER MY ANGER . I WISHED I HAD NOT REACTED THE WAY I DID AND I HATE MYSELF FOR IT.

THERE WAS A FRIEND WHO SHARED HIS LITTLE EXPERIENCE OVER THE WEEKEND WITH ME. HE WENT VISITING HIS BROTHER AND HIS BROTHER GOT HIM SO ANGRY THAT WHEN HE GOT BACK HOME HE FINISHED A POT OF JAM, IS THAT NOT FUNNY ? .THERE ARE DIFFERENT CASES LIKE THIS OUT THERE AND EVERYBODY REACTS DIFFERENTLY DEPENDING ON SITUATION. WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY WHAT DO YOU DO ?

  1. DO YOU GO FOR A DRIVE ?
  2. DO YOU YELL AT THE PERSON YOU ARE ANGRY WITH ?
  3. DO YOU TALK TO A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER ?
  4. DO YOU PHYSICALLY HIT THE PERSON INVOLVED BECAUSE YOU WERE SO ANGRY ?
  5. DID YOU CALL THEM NAMES BECAUSE YOU WERE ANGRY ?
  6. DID YOU LEAVE THE HOUSE  OR GO TO ANOTHER ROOM  TO THINK ?
  7. DID YOU GO TO A QUIET PLACE  TO COOL OFF ?
  8. DID YOU GO TO A BAR TO DRINK BECAUSE YOU WERE ANGRY?
an angry bear

an angry bear (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

HMMMMMMM! NO MATTER WHAT SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES THAT MAKE US ANGRY WE SHOULD LEARN TO CONTROL OUR ANGER. WHAT DO YOU THINK ?.
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