The world Of Loneliness

 

Loneliness and Its Effects

lonely

lonely

 Loneliness has always been a painful and disturbing situation whereby you don’t feel connected to others and you feel the important needs in your life are not being met and you feel some emptiness.  We as humans always need acquaintance and this brings about creation of relationships and friendship so, loneliness is a signal that an important basic need is not being met such as the need to develop a circle of friends or a special relationship. People need people. If you are lonely, you sometimes feel the need for warmth, understanding, and long to share your feelings and thoughts with others. Loneliness does not necessarily mean being alone. For instance, you can feel lonely when you are in a class with twenty other students, in the middle of a party, at a sports event with hundreds of screaming spectators, or surrounded by family.

loneliness

loneliness

 

Loneliness can mean:

  • Feeling that you are unacceptable, unloved by those around you, not worthwhile, even if others don’t share these perceptions; feeling alienated from your surroundings: lacking the attachments that you had in the past… feeling that there is no one with whom to share your personal concerns and experiences…
  • Feeling that you are alone and have no other choice. You may find it difficult to make friends or go beyond mere acquaintance… Loneliness to me means no real companionship
  • There is no one close enough to touch and willing to laugh when I make a stupid joke so I can think I’m funny.
  • Loneliness means eating lots of meals alone. One fork hitting one plate every night for several years is a very desolate sound, devastating and this ruins the best of culinary creations when you match it with a good long stare at the wall in front of you.
  • Feeling that you are not wanted, sometimes you want to associate with others but you have this feeling which draw you back and makes you feel unwanted by others.
  • It sometimes means being very afraid that you will never develop whatever it is that lets other people experience how you feel or share your ideas or feelings with other people, so they can gain or learn from your little experience

    alone

    alone

The best we can do when we feel lonely is to try to share our feelings and emotions with others.  Reasonable advice and good direction on the right part could be very useful because sometimes if you do not let others know your feelings or try to get at least one person you can share your mind and thoughts with, then you might get into trouble, because loneliness sometimes can lead to a lot of things like depression and uncertainty about yourself, life and the world in general, so no matter what we are going through we should avoid being lonely and civilization has made things easy now.  If you feel so lonely try joining a social media, make friends and share opinion, ideas, be active and sometimes solution to your problems could come from there and you might eventually not feel lonely again.

 

Subscribe to storyconnections by Email

Advertisements

Dating Suggestions For Females

Suggestions On Dating For Females

Do you want to discover how to get him to show his emotions with you? Are you tired of sensing like you don’t know what is going on in his mind? Are you unhappy because you aren’t even certain how he feels about you? It may not help to listen to your thoughts, but you are not alone. In fact, the primary issue most women have about the men they are with is that he doesn’t show his feelings with them.  There are some reasons why this occurs, none of which are really too reassuring, but at least if you know why they do it, it may make you feel better about it  And if you play your cards properly, you may even be able to have him to share his emotions with you, at least a bit.  Maybe He is Just Being Himself,  Typically men don’t talk about feelings or emotions. If you listen to men talk you’ll notice that they even use terms in a different way than women. Girls would question each other about  how they feel about something; men, on the flip side, try to ask other guys if they ponder about something.  Ladies are all about sensations and emotions.

dating suggestions

dating suggestions

Men are all about facts and sensible thinking. They can speak to other guys about their favorite team and draw statistics out of the air. They’ll get associated with animated chats about different governmental concerns. But if you ask them to speak about their emotions, they clam up. So certainly, the primary approach is not going to succeed because to guys, it’s much like finding out a foreign dialect Instead, take the pressure off and stop inquiring in so many terms. The “how do you feel” question is among the most dreaded queries that a man want’s. It does more to make him clam up than practically anything else  We Must Have A Different approach or Tactics

suggestions on dating

tips on dating

You are better off to go ahead and take the indirect approach, where you talk to him on the logical level of the relationship. Then every once in a while you might let him know  how certain thing makes you feel. If you have captured him off guard, he may even tell you how it makes him feel too. These are only little steps in the big picture of having him to share his emotions, but at least it’s a start  When you tell him your feelings about him, do not necessarily expect him to do exactly the same. Say it promptly, smile and move on to something else. If you can keep up things with ease and avoid the too serious conversations, he may slowly come around soon enough and actually begin to share his feelings and probably emotions.

Subscribe to storyconnections by Email

WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?

WHY WOULD YOU CRY?

HMMM!  I HAVE SEEN PEOPLE CRY AND I WONDER TO MY SELF ,WHAT WOULD MAKE A MAN  OR A WOMAN CRY?,IS IT THE EMOTION OR JUST A FEELING?, I WONDER!. I AM ALWAYS CURIOUS ABOUT THIS KIND OF ISSUES SOMETIMES AND I PRESENTED THIS ISSUE BEFORE SOME FRIENDS AND MOST OF THEM SAID ITS ALL ABOUT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS IN DIFFERENT DIMENSIONS.

I HAVE DIAGNOSED  AND BROWSED THROUGH MY BRAIN AND MY THOUGHTS AND  COME TO A CONCLUSION, THAT  A LOT OF THINGS COULD ACTUALLY MAKE PEOPLE CRY AND IN TRUTH, ITS ALL ABOUT EMOTIONS AND FEELINGS DEPENDING ON SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES THAT WARRANTS OR MOTIVATES YOU TO CRY. JESICA GOT A MAIL IN THE POST ,THAT SHE HAS GOTTEN ADMISSION SHE HAS WORKED VERY HARD TO GET, WHILE READING THE MAIL TEARS OF JOY STARTED STREAMING DOWN HER FACE.

CRYING COMES AS A RESULT OF DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES OR SITUATIONS AND THIS DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUALS:

  •  THE BIRTH OF A CHILD THAT YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR, FOR A LONG TIME COULD BRING ABOUT TEARS OF JOY
  • THE DEATH OR THE PENDING DEATH OF SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU FOR EXAMPLE PARENTS,FAMILY,FRIENDS,PETS OR JUST A WORTHWHILE AND COURAGEOUS PERSON.
  • DISAPPOINTMENT FROM A RELATIONSHIP
  • LIFE FRUSTRATION CAN BRING ABOUT TEARS
  • SOMEBODY BECAME SAD FROM WATCHING A MOVIE BECAUSE SHE WAS TOUCHED BY THE SENSATION IN THE MOVIE
  • READING TOUCHING POEMS CAN MAKE YOU CRY

CRYING IS A RELEASE OF TENSION AND SORROW,SOMETIMES ITS GOOD TO CRY