Dreams are a natural process which comes to us as a result of our imaginations, aspirations, desires of what we want to become now or in the future. As a result of this desire for life achievement we work hard to get to our goals. From our childhood, some of us have the dream of being lawyers, doctors, engineers, pilots and whatever our hearts desires are. There are times that despite what our dreams were, some of us could not get to that goal and may decide to divert to something else, and thereby killing that childhood dream which if properly assessed would have been the best achievement of our lives. The unfortunate thing is that some of us get to that goal with a lot of effort and struggle and sometimes we abandon that dream for something else due to life experiences, discouragement from those who should put us through and give us proper direction and encouragement. Sometimes we abandon that dream due to circumstances beyond our control.
Talking about dreams there are two kinds, there is the one of sleep and there is this other dream which is our aspiration of what we want to become in life. Naturally we all want to become something important in life, just like somebody having aspiration of being a movie star, musician, doctor, astronaut, engineer or any other important profession. The truth is that everybody has dreams and aspirations for good and better days to come but sometimes due to lack of focus, determination and consistency for whatever our dreams are, we end up killing the dream. Lack of endurance, determination and perseverance makes us drop that goal of what we want to become, but little do we know that life is not a bed of roses and nothing good comes easy, but it takes little effort, determination and focus is the best route to progress and achievement.
The question is how do we fulfill this dream and get that Golden Fleece that we want for ourselves. Getting discouraged is never a good option, because when you are about to give up could be the target point and turn around for better life and better things to come, that is why giving up is never an option. Life is all about good and bad, bitterness and joy but our projection is towards joy. Honey is there for all, but being able to pass through the bees to that honey is our dream. Focus, determination, endurance and perseverance are the key to that goal and want and not giving up is the best option for result. Despite our goals it is always a good thing for parents to encourage and support their kids to do their hearts desires or their childhood aspirations no matter what the situation or circumstances and not discourage them for their own selfish interest.
Human nature is both flexible and rigid depending on how you want to apply it to change, it’s not always easy for someone to want to change from good to bad or from bad to good as the case may be ,but change to good and better life is a possibility, before we talk more lets ask ourselves what change really means, from my layman point of view change could be a situation where you are used to doing something which has become a habit or part of you and you are now planning on throwing that habit away because it affects you and you want the people arround you to see that you are a better person. It’s not always easy to bend a dry stick or else it will break but its easy to bend it a little. To make life different and to bring happiness upon yourself, you can bring change upon yourself.
I have seen many cases of people with different habits, change to good, but initially they will say i cant change this is the way i am, some have been into drugs, womanizing, smoking and other habits but out of determination they finally change for the best, which tells me that we are really flexible or rigid which ever way we want to apply it. however if we want to improve ourselves we can,it only takes determination, resolve and some effort’s, but we can all change our lives for the better if we want to, it is not always easy, it has to come from our heart to want to change for the better and changing has to be something that matters to us deeply. when the pain of changing is more than the pain of wanting to stay the same! , we will change.
there are so many measure that is taken for change to happen:
The zeal and will to change
Determination to change for the better
The thought of realising, that what we are doing is not the best for us