Steps On How To Get Your Ex Back

What It Takes To Get Your EX Back

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Sometimes we wonder why we had a breakup in our former relationship and how to get our ex back and we feel really bad especially if it was somebody we cared deeply about, this thought makes us hope that we reconcile with our ex and because of situations like this,  some people seek for Help! on how to get their ex! back and this is a problem faced by many people who had a bad or unfortunate relationship. After many years of good relationship with your partner, it could be very devastating that you broke up and this could be deteriorating and could lead to a breakdown, depression and a lot of stress and this development all of a sudden will propel  accomplice and friends to assert that there is separation

getting your ex back

getting ex back

Tips:- There are steps that need consideration when it comes to getting your ex back:

  • Make the proper move that will eventually resort to peace between both of you and not anger or resentment.
  • After break up, if your ex asks to go out with you as a company go for it.
  • Don’t hit on his best friend because it will hurt his feeling even if he is no longer with you.
  • Be honest with him and yourself.
  • Do not let him know that you miss him!
  • Don’t be too pushy about him coming back but  let him perceive that you want him back
  • If he wants you back just give him some time, but not too much!
  • Do not argue with him at all time or if possible avoid any form of argument.
  • Avoid flirting with his friends; it will get him angry even more.
  • Do not put any kind of burden on him.
  • Always be positive no matter what the situation.
  • Don’t do something that you are sure he doesn’t like just to get his attention, This might make things worse.
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getting your ex back

Warnings:-

  • Never beg over and over.
  • Don’t get your hopes up too high because there is a chance that he may not yield or respond to you as you expect .
  • Make sure nobody takes advantage of you
  • Never accept your ex back if he or she breaks up with you for another man or woman, unless you still want him or her aback and you feel he or she made a mistake.
  • Don’t go after your ex if he or she has remarried.
  • The fact that he abandoned you could cause you aching on your side, once again keep away from him because he has to move on with another person.


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DO YOU BLOG AND WHY?

PURPOSE OF BLOGGING

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Watching and Blogging (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 BLOGGING IS A WAY OF EXPRESSING YOUR FEELINGS EMOTIONS, OBSERVATIONS, IDEAS AND INFORMATION FOR OTHERS TO SHARE WITH, YOU BUT THE WAY WE INDIVIDUALLY BLOG IS DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER DEPENDING ON THE MOTION AND INSPIRATION AT THAT TIME .SOME PEOPLE GET THEIR INSPIRATION TO BLOG FROM ANGER AND WHEN THEY ARE UPSET,SOME FROM DEPRESSION AND SOME DO GET INSPIRATION TO WRITE FROM INTEREST AND HOBBY AND WILL TO WRITE WHICH HAS BECOME AN HABIT OR HOBBY.GENERALLY WE BLOG BECAUSE WE HAVE IDEAS AND INFORMATION WE WANT TO SHARE TIMELY AND FREQUENTLY AND THIS INFORMATION ARE OF DIFFERENT NATURE DEPENDS ON THE NICHE OR TOPIC THE WRITER WANTS TO TALK ABOUT. IT ALSO SERVES AS A PURPOSE OF MARKETING FOR INDIVIDUALS AND COMPANIES SELLING THEIR PRODUCTS TO THE PUBLIC. BLOG CAN ALSO BE SAID TO BE ANOTHER WAY OF RELEASING TENSION THAT HAS BEEN PILING UP IN YOUR MIND ALL THIS WHILE OR A WAY OF THROWING OUT YOUR FEELINGS  OR EMOTIONS FOR OTHERS TO SHARE AND LEARN FROM .

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BLOG

TALKING ABOUT BLOGGING WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT MOTIVES  AND PURPOSE TO WRITING AND DIFFERENT SITUATIONS INSPIRES US TO WRITE . FROM MY OBSERVATIONS SOME PEOPLE WRITE WHEN THEY FEEL DEPRESSED, SAD OR REALLY ANGRY THAT THEY HAVE TO LET IT OUT. TO SOME  THE BEST WAY TO  LET OUT THEIR BOTTLED UP EMOTIONS WITHOUT BLOWING UP IS TO BLOG. OTHER PEOPLE USE IT AS A REFERENCE POINT FOR THEM TO REMEMBER WHAT EVENTS AND EXPERIENCES THEY HAVE HAD IN THEIR LIVES AND ALSO AS A WAY OF LETTING OTHERS SHARE FROM IT BELIEVING THAT IT CAN BE OF BENEFIT TO THEM. I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT SHARING IDEAS IS A WAY OF LETTING OTHERS LEARN AND KNOW WHAT THEY HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE ABOUT.  THINGS ARE HAPPENING ESPECIALLY AROUND US DAY IN DAY OUT. DUE TO INDIVIDUAL EXPERIENCES. THE TRUTH IS WE HAVE TO LEARN FROM EACH OTHER. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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WHATS THE WORST THING THATS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU AS A RESULT OF PROCASTINATING?

WHAT PROCRASTINATING CAN DO TO YOU

PROCRASTINATION IS TO AVOID DOING A TASK THAT NEEDS TO BE  ACCOMPLISHED ,THIS CAN LEAD TO FEELINGS OF GUILT,INADEQUACY,DEPRESSION AND SELF DOUBT.PROCRASTINATION HAS  A HIGH POTENTIAL FOR PAINFUL CONSEQUENCES.AGAIN JUST IN OUR EVERYDAY LIVES WE HAVE ALL BEEN GUILTY OF PROCRASTINATING IN OUR INDIVIDUAL,SPIRITUAL,CREATIVE AND ACADEMIC LIVES FROM TIME TO TIME.

EVERYONE PROCRASTINATE,THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HIGH PERFORMERS AND LOW PERFORMERS IS LARGELY DETERMINED BY WHAT THEY CHOOSE TO PROCRASTINATE ON,SINCE YOU MUST PROCRASTINATE ANYWAY,DECIDE TODAY TO PROCRASTINATE LOW VALUE ACTIVITIES.DECIDE TO PROCRASTINATE ON OUTSOURCE,DELEGATE,AND ELIMINATE THOSE ACTIVITIES THAT DONT MAKE MUCH OF A CONTRIBUTION TO YOUR LIFE IN ANY CASE,GET RID OF THE TADPOLES AND FOCUS ON THE FROGS.

ACADEMIC PROCRASTINATION CAN BRING ABOUT THE EFFECT OF SELFCONSCIOUSNESS,  SELFESTEEM AND SELF HANDICAPPING.FROM STUDIES WE HAVE SEEN  WHAT  SELF CONSCIOUSNESS AND SELF HANDICAPPING IN RELATION TO ACADEMIC PROCRASTINATION AND THE IMPACT OF THIS BEHAVIOUR ON EXAM PERFORMANCE OF UNDERGRADUATES.HIGH DISPOSITIONAL SELF- HANDICAPPERS AND PROCRASTINATORS STUDIED LESS,DELAYED MORE ON EXAM PREPARATION AND SCORED LOWER ON COURSE EXAMS.HIGH DISPOSITIONAL SELF HANDICAPPING AND HIGH SELF ESTEEM LEADS TO DELAYS IN EXAM PREPARATION.

CREATIVE PROCRASTINATION IS ONE OF THE MOST EFFECTIVE OF ALL PERSONAL PERFORMANCE TECHNIQUE,IT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

PROCRASTINATION MAY RESULT IN STRESS,ANXIETY,SENSE OF GUILT,LOSS OF PERSONAL PRODUCTIVITY,THE CREATION OF CRISIS AND THE DISAPROVAL OF OTHERS FOR NOT FULFILLING YOUR RESPONSIBILITIES OR COMMITMENTS.

YOU CAN BE CERTAIN THAT POSTPONING TASKS WILL ALMOST ALWAYS RESULT IN UNEXPECTED PROBLEMS ARISING ,SO AS MUCH AS YOU WOULD LIKE TO DO SOMETHING OTHER THAN THE JOBS AT HAND,JUST BUCKLE DOWN AND TAKE CARE OF WHAT YOU ARE FAILED WITH .IT CAN HAVE A LOT OF EFFECTS BUT THE WORST THING THAT IT CAN DO TO YOU OR ANYBODY IS

  • IT BRINGS ABOUT NERVOUS FEELINGS OVER OUR BODY
  • IT BRINGS ABOUT DAMAGING CONSEQUENCES IN OUR LIVES
  • DELAYING  BRINGS ABOUT MORE WORK FOR YOU
  • IT CAUSES LACK OF SELF CONTROL
  • IT MAY AFFECT HEALTH.
  • SOMETIMES IT BECOMES IMPOSSIBLE TO FINISH
  • IT CAN BRING ABOUT INSECURITY AND COULD BE THE MOST PENETRABLE BARRIER TO SUCCESS
  • WE CAN MISS OUT AS A RESULT OF PROCRASTINATION

SOMETIMES WE SUFFER GREAT HEART ACHES BECAUSE OF PROCRASTINATING AND IT MAKES US TO BE UNPRODUCTIVE,IF YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE WHO CANT GET ROUND TO FINISHING A JOB IN ONE GO,YOU SHOULD  KNOW THAT THERE IS PROBLEM WITH PUTTING OFF WORK TILL TOMORROW.