It takes two to set up a relationship and it takes two to build it and it takes two to keep up and make that relationship work. When a ship is one-sided it might sink, for a relationship to balance up it needs harmony and a good, loving and long relationship needs love, understanding, perseverance and patience. Sometimes there maybe crisis like quarrel, but who is right or wrong does not really matter, but what matters is how both parties handle whatever the situation is maturely and how you share your views, ideas and settle your grievances. Nobody ever expect or plan a fight with our partners and loved ones in a relationship, in most cases it just shows its ugly head and its very painful especially if it was a serious argument or fight.
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We must learn to understand the gravity on which a relationship stands or established, for every good and loving relationship needs love, understanding, trust, perseverance, endurance and patience, the reason being that two unknown people from different background and different orientation and training decide to come together as one really indicates that there could be conflict because sometimes our opinions may not tally which might lead to little quarrel here and there. The greatest thing we could do as friends and couples in a relationship are to create room for understanding, endurance and patience especially in times of crisis which I believe is the key to a successful relationship.
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There are so many factors that need’s consideration when it comes to how to keep your relationship. The major factors that need consideration are:
love and patience
Making sure we have a healthy and loving relationship
Maintain the relationship and make it work
Learn to listen when the other partner expresses their feelings and Try not to hide your feelings from each other
Create an avenue for good conversation especially in times of crisis for every relationship craves for a healthy conversation
Try enduring and persevere
Try to avoid grudges for more than few hours
Try to work out your differences no matter what
Make sure all ego and emotions are under control
Know when to say yes or no in most cases
Don’t assume your partner can read your mind or know everything
Avoid picking on each other
Trying to know what each partner likes or does not like and it is always very helpful and helps in building a wonderful relationship
Both partners must discover the source of arguments and then create or design a way of finding solution to it and sometimes personal discovery of solution to problem could be very helpful
Don’t take what you say to each other personally, especially during the heat of the moment
THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP. IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.
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I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY, BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE. TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.
true love is unique
TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN. IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.
True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO. WITH RESPECT AND LOVE FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE. Subscribe to storyconnections by Email