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ANGER AND TEMPER AND HOW DO WE AVOID IT?

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THE EFFECT OF ANGER AND TEMPER

THE FIRE THAT BURNS WITHIN WHEN ANGRY

FIRE OF ANGER

NATURALLY WE ALL DO HAVE OUR ANNOYING MODE AND WHAT MAKES US TO BE TEMPERAMENTAL WHICH SOMETIMES ALLOW US TO MAKE OR MAR ,DEPENDING ON SITUATION AND CONTROL MODE . AS A MATTER OF FACT ,HUMAN NATURE ,DEPENDING ON WHOM IS INVOLVED IS PRONE TO ANGER,BUT IT IS MORE HELPFUL IF WE AS HUMANS ,NO MATTER WHAT CIRCUMSTANCE OR SITUATION THAT AGGRAVATES OUR ANGER,  LEARN TO CONTROL IT,ITS VERY DIFFICULT BUT THE BEST BET IS TO WALK OUT, FOR LIKE ONE OR TWO HOURS ,ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE A HIGH TEMPER,BY THE TIME YOU ARE BACK YOU HAVE COOLED OFF AND ALL WILL BE FINE EVENTUALLY,THAT WAY YOU WILL NOT BE FORCED TO DO WHAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO.THERE ARE MANY CASES OF PEOPLE SAYING I DONT KNOW WHAT GOT INTO ME AND I DONT KNOW WHEN I STRUCK HIM OR HER BECAUSE I WAS BLINDFOLDED WITH ANGER AND MY TEMPER WAS ON A 550 DEGREE,THEREFORE MAKING IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO CONTROL MYSELF WHICH LEAD TO WHAT I DID.

ANGER IS A NATURAL THING FOR EVERYBODY,BUT IT IS ALMOST A DISEASE, IF NOT CONTROLLED AND IT AGGRAVATES  TO TEMPER WHICH CAN CAUSE A DISASTER,EITHER BY STRIKING OR INSULTING YOUR OPPONENT ,AND MAKES YOU SAY WORDS WHICH IS NOT WORTH SAYING AND DOING THINGS THAT IS NOT WORTH DOING, IF NOT PROPERLY CHECKED. IT IS ALWAYS LIKE A FLASH OF THUNDER WHEN IT STRIKES.

I WAS HAVING A DISCUSSION WITH SOMEBODY WHO SAYS HE IS ALWAYS VERY TEMPERAMENTAL DUE TO ANGER, AND HE SAID WHEN I AM ANGRY ,ITS LIKE I AM SURROUNDED WITH DARKNESS THAT I CANNOT SEE, AND WHEN I STRIKE IT IS VERY DEVASTATING AND THE OTHER ONE SAID HE FINDS IT DIFFICULT CONTROLLING HIMSELF WHEN ANGRY,WHICH MAKES HIM TO BE ABUSIVE AND INSULTING,BUT FROM MY LITTLE EXPERIENCE ,I DO REALISE THAT THE BEST BET IS TO WALK AWAY,ITS ALMOST LIKE A NUT DIFFICULT TO CRACK,SO THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO WALK OUT OF THAT ENVIRONMENT AT THAT POINT IN TIME FOR  A LITTLE WHILE AND WHEN YOU COME BACK THE  TEMPER WILL BE AS COOL AS  ICE WATER.”ANGER IS A KILLING THING:IT DESTROYS THE MAN WHO ANGERS,FOR EACH RAGE LEAVES HIM LESS THAN HE HAD BEEN BEFORE-IT TAKES SOMETHING FROM HIM”,”ANGER AND INTOLERANCE ARE THE ENEMIES OF CORRECT UNDERSTNDING”.