WHAT IT TAKES TO END UP A RELATIONSHIP

RELATIONSHIP IS A THING THAT COMES NATURALLY AND ITS ALWAYS VERY EXCITING ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU ARE MEETING WHOMEVER YOUR PARTNER IS, FOR THE FIRST TIME.  THERE ARE ALWAYS DIFFERENT CIRCUMSTANCES OR SITUATIONS THAT WARRANT BREAKING UP  A RELATIONSHIP. RECENTLY I HAD TO END UP A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE I LOVE SO MUCH, DESPITE THE FACT THAT I CARE SO MUCH , I HAD NO CHOICE BUT TO END THE RELATIONSHIP DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND MY CONTROL AND I BELIEVE THIS APPLIES TO A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE DIFFERENT SITUATIONS WHICH LEAD TO THEIR BREAKING UP. TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN, IT IS NOT ALWAYS EASY ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU LOSE OR END A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE YOU  CARE FOR AND LOVE.

devastated (Photo credit: BrendaCalara)

IT TAKES A LOT OF EFFORT TO END A RELATIONSHIP. THERE WAS A SCENARIO OF A LADY WHO MET A MAN AND FELL IN LOVE WITH THE MAN BUT UNFORTUNATELY FOR THIS LADY THE MAN PROVES NOT TO BE RESPONSIBLE, HE REFUSE TO WORK AND REFUSE TO TREAT HER WITH RESPECT AND THE WORST OF IT ALL WAS HE KEPT BORROWING MONEY FROM HER AND REFUSE TO PAY BACK. SHE KEPT ADVISING HIM TO GET A JOB BUT HE REFUSED, BUT AFTER A WHILE SHE REALIZED THE RELATIONSHIP WAS NOT HEALTHY ENOUGH AND WAS NOT GOING TO WORK, SO SHE DECIDED TO QUIT. AS PAINFUL AS IT WAS, SHE WOULD HAVE WISHED THAT HE WOULD BE MORE RESPONSIBLE AS A MAN. THE CIRCUMSTANCES WAS BEYOND HER CONTROL SHE JUST HAD TO END THE RELATIONSHIP.  THERE WAS ANOTHER INSTANCE OF A LADY WHO HAD TO BREAKUP BECAUSE HER PARTNER WAS ALWAYS  UPSET IF THEY HAVE A LITTLE MISUNDERSTANDING AND SHE WAS AFRAID THAT HE MIGHT HIT HER OR DO SOMETHING BAD TO HER SOMEDAY, SO SHE HAD TO END THE RELATIONSHIP.

That Awkward Moment When… (Photo credit: EliJerma)

ITS ALWAYS VERY HARD AND CONFUSING WHEN YOU HAD TO LET GO OF SOMEONE YOU LOVE AND CARE FOR.  LETS REVIEW SOME CASES RELATING TO DIFFERENT INDIVIDUALS. SOME PEOPLE BREAKUP DUE TO CARELESSNESS OR IRRESPONSIBILITY AND SOME BREAKUP DUE TO JEALOUSY  AND LACK OF TRUST . SOME BREAKUP BECAUSE THEIR PARTNER KEEP  BORROWING FROM THEM AND REFUSE TO PAY BACK. OTHERS BREAKUP DUE TO PRESSURE FROM THE OTHER PARTNER AND OTHERS FROM BEEN ABANDONED.  AS WE ALL KNOW ITS NOT ALWAYS GOOD WHEN YOU ARE BEEN ABANDONED OR WHEN YOU HAVE A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP AND THIS MAKES SOME PEOPLE MISERABLE AND DEPRESSED.

FROM ALL POINT OF VIEW I WOULD RATHER SUGGEST THAT NO MATTER WHAT SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES WE MEET OURSELVES IN A RELATIONSHIP WE SHOULD TRY TO APPLY PATIENCE AND PERSEVERANCE AND SOMETIMES FORGIVENESS MIGHT BE A WAY OUT OF THE ODD AND HARD RELATIONSHIP, EXCEPT WHEN YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO QUIT.
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