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THE TRAUMA OF WIDOWHOOD

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MISSING A LOVED TREASURE
WIDOWHOOD IS SOMETHING THAT BEFALLS PEOPLE UNEXPECTEDLY WITHOUT PRIOR ARRANGEMENT OR KNOWLEDGE AND IT GOES ALONG WITH A LOT OF OTHER EFFECTS, BUT THIS  CAN BE OVERCOME,  WHOEVER IS INVOLVED GETS HIM OR HERSELF COMPOSED WHATEVER THE SITUATION, I WAS BY THE FIRE BROODING OVER MY EXPERIENCES AND THINKING OF HOW MUCH I LOVED AND MISSED MY BELOVED, ESPECIALLY WHEN I REMEMBER HOW HE USED TO CUDDLE ME, PET ME WHEN I AM UPSET, TALK GENTLY TO ME AND HOW WE USED TO SIT BY THE TV OR BY THE FIRE DISCUSSING, “WHAT A MEMORY!” AND PLANNING ABOUT TOMORROW AND THE FUTURE, IT WAS REALLY NICE AND LOVELY, ALTHOUGH I HAVE FAMILY TO GO TO AND RELY ON , BUT ITS NOT LIKE WHEN HE WAS HERE, I MISSED HIM, BUT I HAVE REALISED THAT LIFE CONTINUES NO MATTER WHAT, SO I HAVE DECIDED TO FACE MY BUSINESS, MY LIFE  and TAKE GOOD CARE OF HOME .
English: Lady Napier (1794–1883) in widowhood. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
I DO REALIZE THAT FOR A WIDOW NOT TO MISS THE LOVED ONE, IT’S GOOD TO SHOW THEM LOVE AND AFFECTION, INVITE THEM ONES IN A WHILE FOR OUTINGS WHICH WILL MAKE THEM TO BE IN A GATHERING OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY , WITH A LOT OF DISCUSSION AND LAUGHTER, THIS WILL GIVE THEM A REASSURANCE OF BETTER LIFE AHEAD. ITS GOOD TO ADVISE AGAINST THINKING ALL THE TIME WHICH MIGHT LEAD TO HEALTH ISSUES AND DEPRESSION AND A LOT OF UNNECESSARY SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES. ENCOURAGEMENT AND SUPPORT IS VERY NECESSARY TOO.