Steps On How To Get Your Ex Back

What It Takes To Get Your EX Back

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Sometimes we wonder why we had a breakup in our former relationship and how to get our ex back and we feel really bad especially if it was somebody we cared deeply about, this thought makes us hope that we reconcile with our ex and because of situations like this,  some people seek for Help! on how to get their ex! back and this is a problem faced by many people who had a bad or unfortunate relationship. After many years of good relationship with your partner, it could be very devastating that you broke up and this could be deteriorating and could lead to a breakdown, depression and a lot of stress and this development all of a sudden will propel  accomplice and friends to assert that there is separation

getting your ex back

getting ex back

Tips:- There are steps that need consideration when it comes to getting your ex back:

  • Make the proper move that will eventually resort to peace between both of you and not anger or resentment.
  • After break up, if your ex asks to go out with you as a company go for it.
  • Don’t hit on his best friend because it will hurt his feeling even if he is no longer with you.
  • Be honest with him and yourself.
  • Do not let him know that you miss him!
  • Don’t be too pushy about him coming back but  let him perceive that you want him back
  • If he wants you back just give him some time, but not too much!
  • Do not argue with him at all time or if possible avoid any form of argument.
  • Avoid flirting with his friends; it will get him angry even more.
  • Do not put any kind of burden on him.
  • Always be positive no matter what the situation.
  • Don’t do something that you are sure he doesn’t like just to get his attention, This might make things worse.
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getting your ex back

Warnings:-

  • Never beg over and over.
  • Don’t get your hopes up too high because there is a chance that he may not yield or respond to you as you expect .
  • Make sure nobody takes advantage of you
  • Never accept your ex back if he or she breaks up with you for another man or woman, unless you still want him or her aback and you feel he or she made a mistake.
  • Don’t go after your ex if he or she has remarried.
  • The fact that he abandoned you could cause you aching on your side, once again keep away from him because he has to move on with another person.


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The Best Advice You Can Get For Breakup

Breakup – Best Advice You Can Get

There are so many breakup advice out there and sometimes you get confused and you don’t even know what to do or what not to do. I am sure you still feel for your ex and your heart is still attached to your ex.  No matter what you do or what the situation is, what you want is getting your ex back because you are still in love.. I have been where you are now and I know what it feels like to go without sleep, to lose your appetite and be lonely and sometimes you cannot stand your feelings. It is good sometimes to have an experienced friend to point you in the right direction and not a friend that will urge you to move on and feed you with lies instead of advising you to get your ex back. I want your happiness and getting your ex back is the best thing to do in the present situation and that is the only way happiness can come your way and that is the fact.

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breakup

The best recommendation i can give to a friend is for you to hold on to your love and if you still love your ex try to settle your differences. Don’t be discouraged  about your situation but know that the love that you once shared is still there and will not go away and for sure the love will come back as long as your ex still loves you as you do. From my point of view, if your ex ever told you how much they love you before, then you are just experiencing an issue where things are out of balance. Probably grossly out of balance, preferably, i will suggest you wait for some times till you both settle and get things in place and with time that love will surely come back to you. It is not advisable to Move on to another relationship at this point, doing so may jeopardize the reconciliation process and this might be a huge mistake for both of you if caution is not taken.

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There will always be advice about moving on and forgetting about getting your ex  back and can make life even more complicating and this could be painful if care is not taken. Surely, having someone pay attention to you can boost your ego and that’s fine but trying to get into a relationship at this point could be very disastrous. How would you feel breaking up a relationship when you find out that you can’t stop loving your ex and you want your ex back, so the best key to your problem is patience. Breaking the heart of an innocent person is definitely not what you want..

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WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU FELT REALLY, TRULY LONELY?

HOW DOES IT FEEL TO BE REALLY AND TRULY LONELY

Loneliness is always a devastating situation and always arises as a result of different circumstances or situations like loss of a deer family member, breakup in a relationship, being made jest off by friends in school and a lot of other cases and situations.  Looking at it critically it has always been painful and disturbing when you don’t feel connected to others.  We as humans always want friendship, love and acquaintance.

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loneliness (Photo credit: PrAdEeP’s Vision)

loneliness is a signal that an important basic need is not being met, such as the need to develop a circle of friends or a special relationship or the need for support. It is always very devastating and terrible when you feel the need for warmth and it’s not there, the need for understanding and support, especially when you have a special program and you want your family there for you.  The need and longing to share your feelings and thoughts with others, but nobody is there to listen to you can make you really and truly lonely. Loneliness can also arise as a result of insecurity, inferiority complex, the feeling that you are not acceptable and loved by people around you, the feeling that you have no choice but be lonely.

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I am lonely

The last time I felt lonely was when i was far away from my family due to circumstances beyond my control which led to loneliness and because of this, I had to console myself by getting a dog to keep my company.  there are others with similar or different cases that warrants loneliness, like the case of a teenager who had a sweet and loving parents but lost them to accident can become very lonely or the case of a student who likes been teased or bullied all the time by her fellow students can lead to that student being really and truly lonely.

"Loneliness has followed me my whole life...

“Loneliness has followed me my whole life, everywhere. In bars, in cars, sidewalks, stores, everywhere. There’s no escape. I’m God’s lonely man.” Robert De Niro as neo-noir antihero Travis Bickle in Taxi Driver (1976). (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

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IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, COULD IT BE TRUE LOVE?

WITH TRUE LOVE, CAN YOU EASILY BREAKUP A RELATIONSHIP?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART, MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.

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IF YOU EVENTUALLY BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE, WAS IT TRUE LOVE?

IF THE LOVE WAS TRUE,IS IT POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP ?

THE QUESTION IS, IF THE LOVE IS TRUE, CAN THERE BE A REAL BREAK UP? ITS HARD TO DETERMINE, DEPENDING ON OUR DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE AND WHAT WE THINK ABOUT BREAKING UP A RELATIONSHIP AND THE FACTORS WHICH BRINGS ABOUT THE BREAKUP.  IF WE LOOK AT IT CRITICALLY BEFORE WE START A RELATIONSHIP THERE WAS A FEELING OR ATTRACTION BETWEEN BOTH PARTIES WHICH BROUGHT THEM TOGETHER, WHICH EVENTUALLY TURNS TO TRUE LOVE OR INFATUATION AS THE CASE MAY BE.

One True Love

One True Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I WILL SAY TRUE LOVE IS GIVING ALL YOU HAVE TO SOMEBODY AND NOT EXPECTING OR GETTING ANYTHING BACK FROM THAT GESTURE AND THIS NORMALLY GOES A LONG WAY,  BUT INFATUATION IS ANOTHER KIND OF LOVE WHICH LOOKS SO REAL THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY CONVINCED THAT ITS TRUE LOVE, BUT IT DOES NOT LAST AND IT’S LIKE A MAKE BELIEVE.  TRUE LOVE FROM MY LITTLE UNDERSTANDING, IS A SPECIAL FEELING, ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE NEVER HAD THAT KIND OF STRANGE SENSATION OR FEELING ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

true love is unique

TRUE LOVE IS NOT FRAGILE BUT STRONG AND VERY UNCONDITIONAL AND WITH TRUE LOVE ALL KINDS OF COMPATIBILITY ISSUES ARE BROKEN.  IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP THERE ARE ALWAYS ROUGH TIMES  AND IT WILL LOOK LIKE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH A WHIRL WIND OR CRISIS AND IN SOME CASES SOME PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE OF SCALING THROUGH, WHICH EVENTUALLY, MIGHT LEAD TO BREAKUPS. AND FOR EVERY BREAKUP THERE IS ALWAYS ONE REASON, WHICH EVENTUALLY LEADS TO MUTUAL DECISION DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND THERE CONTROL.

True Love (1989 film)

True Love (1989 film) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

IN TRUE LOVE BREAKUPS DO HAPPEN, BUT ON RARE CASES AND MOST TIMES THEY HAPPEN FOR A SPECIAL REASON WHICH CANNOT BE COMPROMISED, SO IT IS POSSIBLE TO BREAKUP WITH TRUE LOVE. TRUE LOVE IS HAVING THE COMPASSION, FEELING, AND STRENGTH TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART AND MIND AND SOUL, BUT DUE TO CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND YOUR CONTROL, YOU JUST HAVE TO LET GO.  WITH RESPECT AND LOVE  FOR THAT RELATIONSHIP, THE FEELING WILL NEVER GO AWAY AND YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE THOUGHTS OF THAT PERSON EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE. ON THE OTHER HAND IF THERE WAS  A BREAKUP WITH SOMEBODY AND THEY NEVER LOOKED BACK,THEN IT WAS NEVER A TRUE LOVE.
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